Review
of
Sacred Selfishness, by Bud Harris, PhD
Reviewer: Mark Lamendola
Our whole lives, we are taught to play by the rules that others make.
We are also bombarded with messages designed to make us want to buy
things or join organizations. Many of our activities--including work
and play--are at odds with who we really are. We make the wrong educational
choices, career choices, and leisure choices. And we may feel frustrated,
restless, unfulfilled, or even despondent due to this. So,
what's the answer? Harris believes the answer lies in valuing ourselves
as individual human beings and finding out who we really are. In Sacred
Selfishness, Harris draws lessons from the classic quest stories--such
as those involving the Greek and Roman gods, Biblical heroes, and
other icons of our culture. He demonstrates how to question the very
assumptions that we have taken for granted--assumptions that have
formed a sort of glass cage from which many of us never escape. This
questioning, and the journey it takes us on, leads to discoveries
of our own potential.
Self-knowledge provides a basis for strength in
ourselves and an understanding of others--thus we enjoy life more
and love more fully.
In addition to being philosophical, the book is
practical. Harris demonstrates the techniques of journaling and dialoguing,
plus presents some other tools for those seeking self-knowledge. Harris
provides case histories, and gives insight into the kinds of issues
a person should consider delving into.
Be warned, though. This book contains no simple
recipe, cute formulas, or six step process for transforming yourself
into a superhuman. It does provide a solid foundation for the thinking
person who wants to develop more fully and realize her or her own
potential. With a bit of work and this book as a guide, you can expect
a rewarding journey of self-discovery. |